Take a Walk
I can't be the only person who does her best thinking while moving, or makes her closest connections with other human beings while undertaking some sort of collective activity. I've had my best business ideas while out for an easy run. I've made some of my closest friends at the gym and in my running group.
Yet I sit on my tail end in chairs attending meetings and serving at desks most of the day. Or in the front seat of my car, while my tail end heads to new chairs in different locales. This is while I'm supposed to be thinking or bonding with people.
Even when people suggest meetings to "get me out of the office" to talk in a more relaxed fashion—a common tactic for people who want to network or to sell me things—we go to a restaurant, coffee shop, or bar.
I'm going to revolt. I'm tired of business lunches, coffees, and drinks. And I'm tired of sitting on my butt most of the day. When I need to have a meeting that doesn't require a white board or a computer--and, really, most don't—I'm going to suggest some sort of physical activity.
All the people—mainly men—who go golfing with clients and business partners? I'll take that as evidence that I'm not alone. Maybe we nongolfers just really don't know what else to do other than sit at a restaurant or in a coffee shop or in a bar, if we aren't in an office setting. Or even sit at an athletic event, where we continue to flatten our backsides while watching other people play.
Fortunately, I live in the fourth largest city in the United States, Houston, where there are plenty of interesting urban expanses and beautiful green places to walk—all in reasonable proximity. About a mile from my office, there are three walking/jogging trails. There are also countless gyms and athletic facilities, and most people I know belong to one of them. (Because even though there are many great places to be outdoors, the summer months in Houston can be unbearable in the afternoon.)
And no, nothing too strenuous will be required. I don't think well or have great conversations when I'm doing speedwork or when I'm on my third rep of a really heavy set of weights. I'm talking about taking a stroll, trying new equipment at the gym, or even giving putt-putt golf a try. (I'll pass on the real golf. Sorry, Dad.)
Of course, full disclosure: In my ideal world, I'd get to wear pajamas or athletic clothes at all times. So in a way, this will help bring me closer to my ideal world. Bonus.
Want to meet with me? Let's talk a walk. I'm almost always up for that.